What’s most annoying is that for 95% of users, federation doesn’t even matter. You just log on and use lemmy exactly like reddit. All feds are consolidated onto my front page anyway.
People make a big deal about it, it definitely intimidated me when I first logged up. It’s one of the reasons I put off getting into lemmy for such a long time, and it’s frustrating that in the end, it really makes no difference.
I live in Germany and can confidently say that’s absolutely not true. It’s also a weird thing to try and attach to Americans specifically?