Men have to make relationships happen. If they do not directly and obviously show interest and intent on pursuing a person they’re interested in, they will never have any sort of relationships. Ever.
Out of the 5 relationships I’ve been in maybe two were ones that I initiated, and I don’t even consider myself to be that attractive. I’ve just had much better luck being a real person that someone wanted to like and letting things naturally develop than I ever did with that kind of behavior. In fact, some of the most cringey behavior of mine that I can remember is me directly and obviously showing interest in women who (looking back) clearly had no interest in me.
Men have to make relationships happen. If they do not directly and obviously show interest and intent on pursuing a person they’re interested in, they will never have any sort of relationships. Ever.
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Out of the 5 relationships I’ve been in maybe two were ones that I initiated, and I don’t even consider myself to be that attractive. I’ve just had much better luck being a real person that someone wanted to like and letting things naturally develop than I ever did with that kind of behavior. In fact, some of the most cringey behavior of mine that I can remember is me directly and obviously showing interest in women who (looking back) clearly had no interest in me.