• nagaram@startrek.website
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    1 day ago

    I once knew a guy who was overweight and had his face fucked up in an ATV accident who was constantly cheating on his various girlfriends.

    Looks really don’t matter.

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      I’ve run into/heard about these guys. The problem with your statement is that the girls they are with tend to also be overweight and have fucked up faces.

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        Sounds like they’re getting laid at least, which is contrary to the typical incel narrative

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          I mean, sure. I’m just saying there is a middle ground. My take is that looks matter - but personality and lifestyle matter too. And all of these things can be improved with reasonable (though consistent) amounts of work.

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        There’s shortage of conventionally unattractive guys pulling hot tail.

        Your personality has a ton to do with it. And how much you remind them of their father.