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  • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
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    toGreentext@sh.itjust.worksanonette works in IT
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    25 days ago

    It’s just genetics, we know as a society that’s it’s not really appropriate for older men to be with younger women despite our basic instincts. I don’t think our human urges are inherently sad, just something to keep in mind.

    Some people call people like Mick Jagger and Leonardo DiCaprio sick for being with young women but I don’t think it’s wrong if both people in the relationship are happy.







  • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
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    toGreentext@sh.itjust.worksAnon figures out how dieting works
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    1 month ago

    Whilst what you’re saying is true, it’s important to recognise that you can’t out run a terrible diet.

    You could eat well all week, run ten miles a day and then completely ruin it by eating and drinking 20,000 calories at the weekend.

    To put it simply, it doesn’t matter if you burn an amazing 5000 calories a day if you’re consuming 5500 calories.

    95% of losing weight is simply eating less, there’s absolutely no need to complicate it by telling people they must radically change their diet or that they need to dedicate themselves to regimented exercise.









  • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
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    to4chan@lemmy.worldArch user
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    2 months ago

    What’s the favourite Linux who want to pretend that morbid obesity isn’t an epidemic?

    Bullying is obviously not Ok, but nor is the normalisation of such an unhealthy lifestyle.

    This guy wasn’t born fat, nor did he simply wake up this way on day, it took several years of continuous terrible choices.

    If you look like a freak, you will stared at, it’s harsh but it’s true.


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    2 months ago

    Anyone that says “I don’t judge”, is either a liar or are so unself aware that they don’t realise that they have even subconscious biases (but usually the first one).

    You’re not even virtue signalling here, you’re just showing a lack of maturity.


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    2 months ago

    It’s not nice, but pretending they don’t have an issue also doesn’t help them.

    Some people literally can’t imagine themselves through the eyes of another, they need it spelt out to them in plain English.

    I’m not saying that this makes the post OK, but there is a middle ground to find. It’s not like this guy has been fat shamed for going to the gym, trying to fix himself.

    The guy is a legit freak of nature and that’s always going to open you up to stares and photographs, that sucks, but he wasn’t born that way nor did he simply wake up like that one day and it doesn’t suck as much as normalising such an unhealthy lifestyle.