Ok, but I’m not seeing people saying that on here. I’m seeing a lot of people doing the big business < small business < co-op attitude, but not much of the fellating small business owners

So my father did it, and I don’t think it was intentional, the big thing was that his perspective was to be treated as objective fact in discussions in which he was a part. You could say something like “I’m cold” and he’d respond with “it’s not cold” in a frustrated tone. The long and short of it in how it fucked me up is that I struggle to trust my own subjective reality and feel the need to get permission to feel things. That can be a real problem when it comes time to form and maintain boundaries for example.

Yeah I associate it with uncontrolled BPD and it fucking terrifies me at this point because of the experiences that caused that association. Being put on a pedestal sucks, your successes become expected and your failures become catastrophic. But also you can feel trapped for fear of hurting someone who you do like who’s in a bad place. And from there enforcing boundaries can start to feel like hurting them.

With my wife we still make points to express that we’d be ok and manage if the other left. Our finances are built with that in mind even. Knowing I can leave makes me always aware of how I don’t want to, and it makes us safe and secure in the fact that we know the other doesn’t want to.

With someone coming on too strong too fast you need to keep your eyes open and be aware of your boundaries. It may be someone who’s awesome and sincere who’s just on a different pace than you, it may be an intentional abuser being machiavellian, but it’s also got a pretty good chance of being someone unstable and sincere and oh fucking boy will that cause problems if you don’t have and maintain boundaries.

Hell, his beef with Francis is even dumber. “Be good to refugees” is one of the most basic and consistent expectations placed on Christians. Jesus said to do it without room for interpretation, as does the old testament

Catholics have the worst converts lol, they expect it to be a more aesthetic protestantism witn extra ritual, but then are shocked when they’re expected to listen to the magesterium and engage with theology in an educated manner without playing protestant calvinball, especially if they’re going to disagree with the magesterium

And that’s why francis had to clarify that he wasn’t speaking infallibly when he said he hoped hell was empty

The man converted to catholicism then within a few years was beefing with two popes in a row on basic catholicism.

Ah I see the problem. Too low dose of atropa belladonna

This is some severance ass bullshit

Yeah if you need more jobs either find work that’s good to do but normally can’t be justified like the American CCC did or cut hours for similar pay

Yeah sounds about right based on the people I knew who went to Cedarville

Ok, that’s cool and good. Sad LSD wasn’t one of them though

Aww but the kitty was the best part of my stay there

It is his people’s day

So it’s going to be rerouted from the MRIs I take it…

Yeah anonymity and pseudonymity have been stolen from us IRL in a lot of cases and we shouldn’t cede them online. We should also take them back irl. Go lie about who you are to someone you meet.

Welcome and go fuck yourself /s

Spez is also into whatever ideology is popular among the tech rich of Silicon Valley at any given time. Right now that’s technofascism

Prison guards are way too comfortable torturing people